what to do? delicate problem?
osmijeh asked:
I am 34, married and I have all posible happines in the world! He is 35. We love each other, respect each other, pay attention to every single need the partner has, spend great time together, no metter if it’s in restauran, in theater, on hkey-game, in front of TV, playing billiards, singing, dancing…every single moment I feel his love. That/s something I never thought it could be! And it last for a years and I’m now sure that will last forever. But, he doesn’t want a childe. Neither I am so,so for that, but, sometimes I think I would like to have some kid. We spoke a lot about that and he is so against that cause he doesn’t want to share love with someone else, he is afraid that child will bring changes which will chage our atitude to each other too, and he just doesn’t want to risk! I know that he would agree and do it for me, if I’d insist, cause he really loves me. But is it worth?! What if I really lose him in sense that he can’t be the same cause of this childe.
Thank you very much, all of you! But there is one important thing: he is afraid that he will not be the same after we get a kid. And what to do now?! Ok, we have kid, but I don’t have my loving husband anymore. That one who I loved for he was. I am sure he’ll take care about me and kid, but what if he lose those sparkle in his eyes, if this new, “seriuos” life with kid just takes away all thos things what I liked on him! Spontainesly! Without his willing to be different! What if he is not happy as much as he was before, and he’ll hide it, of corse, but I’d feel it! Is it worth to lose MY husband – that one who I have now!
Crystal
I am 34, married and I have all posible happines in the world! He is 35. We love each other, respect each other, pay attention to every single need the partner has, spend great time together, no metter if it’s in restauran, in theater, on hkey-game, in front of TV, playing billiards, singing, dancing…every single moment I feel his love. That/s something I never thought it could be! And it last for a years and I’m now sure that will last forever. But, he doesn’t want a childe. Neither I am so,so for that, but, sometimes I think I would like to have some kid. We spoke a lot about that and he is so against that cause he doesn’t want to share love with someone else, he is afraid that child will bring changes which will chage our atitude to each other too, and he just doesn’t want to risk! I know that he would agree and do it for me, if I’d insist, cause he really loves me. But is it worth?! What if I really lose him in sense that he can’t be the same cause of this childe.
Thank you very much, all of you! But there is one important thing: he is afraid that he will not be the same after we get a kid. And what to do now?! Ok, we have kid, but I don’t have my loving husband anymore. That one who I loved for he was. I am sure he’ll take care about me and kid, but what if he lose those sparkle in his eyes, if this new, “seriuos” life with kid just takes away all thos things what I liked on him! Spontainesly! Without his willing to be different! What if he is not happy as much as he was before, and he’ll hide it, of corse, but I’d feel it! Is it worth to lose MY husband – that one who I have now!
Crystal
Tags: Atitude, Billiards, Childe, Delicate Problem, Game, Great Time, Happines, Love, Loving Husband, Metter, Pay Attention, Restauran, Risk, Single Moment, Sparkle