osmijeh asked:


I am 34, married and I have all posible happines in the world! He is 35. We love each other, respect each other, pay attention to every single need the partner has, spend great time together, no metter if it’s in restauran, in theater, on hkey-game, in front of TV, playing billiards, singing, dancing…every single moment I feel his love. That/s something I never thought it could be! And it last for a years and I’m now sure that will last forever. But, he doesn’t want a childe. Neither I am so,so for that, but, sometimes I think I would like to have some kid. We spoke a lot about that and he is so against that cause he doesn’t want to share love with someone else, he is afraid that child will bring changes which will chage our atitude to each other too, and he just doesn’t want to risk! I know that he would agree and do it for me, if I’d insist, cause he really loves me. But is it worth?! What if I really lose him in sense that he can’t be the same cause of this childe.
Thank you very much, all of you! But there is one important thing: he is afraid that he will not be the same after we get a kid. And what to do now?! Ok, we have kid, but I don’t have my loving husband anymore. That one who I loved for he was. I am sure he’ll take care about me and kid, but what if he lose those sparkle in his eyes, if this new, “seriuos” life with kid just takes away all thos things what I liked on him! Spontainesly! Without his willing to be different! What if he is not happy as much as he was before, and he’ll hide it, of corse, but I’d feel it! Is it worth to lose MY husband – that one who I have now!

Crystal

ashley b asked:


I had a work function that I had to go to after work on Monday that began at 6pm. I came home after work, change out of my uniform, and told my husband I was going. I had told him about it earlier in the day, when I found out about it, and asked him if he wanted to come and bring our son. He said no. So I went, and it was a billiards tournament but the place only had 3 tables and there were about 25 ppl that had to play. At about 8:30 I was starting my first game and my phone went off. It was my husband asking why it was taking 2 1/2 hours to play a game of pool. I didn’t have very long b/c I was in the middle of playing so I just texted back “I just started my first game”. Various txts ensued, mostly accusing me of being out partying, and telling me not to bother coming home, just enjoy myself. I tried to call 4 or 5 times to explain to him, but he didn’t pick up. He SAYS I should have called him to tell him things were going slowly, but I don’t feel like I need to check in every two hours. Am I crazy? Or is he?

Amanda